Timmy: Is it wrong to regift something?
Me: I mean… I guess it depends on the item. If you regift a 1-day-old car, the recipient probably wouldn’t care.
Timmy: Cool. I’d like to regift Ashley.
We saw the movie adaptation of Matilda the Musical this past April at an advanced screening. Apparently, we were the first audience to see the film…which thrilled my kids. It seems like forever ago.
Even though I was a bookworm as a child, I never got into the Matilda book. For some reason, the characters and story didn’t resonate with me. I loved many of Roald Dahl’s other works, the Charlie Bucket/Willy Wonka books, James and the Giant Peach, Fantastic Mr. Fox.
Despite my lukewarm reaction to the story, the musical adaptation of Matilda that opened in London in 2012 piqued my interest and I bought the cast recording when it was released. Being a musical theater geek, I’ve always been interested in the latest shows. Except the songs didn’t appeal to me..nor did its Tony Award performance a year later when it landed on Broadway…so I didn’t see the show when the national tour arrived in Southern California,
Fast forward to this past spring… When the screening invitation arrived…I accepted it for my kids’ sake. Ashley was singing “When I Grow Up” from Matilda in her voice lessons, and Josh had enjoyed reading the book in second grade. They were really excited.
When we arrived for the screening, we went through a screening of our own. Each audience member was asked to sign a NDA in which we promised not to discuss the movie or disclose anything about it until after its theatrical release. To ensure we adhered to the agreement, organizers even Googled each person and made note of our social media accounts. Then we surrendered our cell phones for the duration of the movie and entered the theater.
I wanted to like the movie, but when it ended and the audience applauded, it saddened me that I hadn’t loved it as so many others in attendance clearly had. Thought it was extremely well-executed (dance numbers were sublime!) but still felt emotionally detached from the characters and story. As for the songs….didn’t feel strongly one way or another…didn’t exactly like them…but didn’t actively dislike them either.
I guess Matilda is just a story that will never click with me in any incarnation…no matter how much I wish it would.
Afterward we filled out the post-movie survey. I praised Alisha Weir’s performance in the title role, Lashana Lynch as Miss Honey, and the dancing. My chief criticism was that the film felt unnecessarily long (a case with most movies nowadays)…especially for a family film. My three children, Joey, and about 20 others were then asked to stay for an informal chat with the director. I wasn’t cool enough to be asked so I wandered the mall until their session ended.
When I reunited with my family an hour later, Joey said that the director seemed especially interested in hearing feedback from Ashley’s demographic. Not one to shy away from expressing her opinion, Ashley told the director she wished the movie showed Matilda practicing her physical powers. They just seemed to come out of nowhere without any explanation.
On the drive home, our family discussed the movie again. We were especially curious about what changes would be made before it made its debut in 8 months time.
When the movie finally hit Netflix on Christmas, Ashley was so excited to watch it. Right away, we noticed the movie was shorter….several scenes had been cut. A good decision. According to Ashley, a lengthy scene involving Matilda breaking into Trunchbull’s house and another scene with Miss Honey tidying up her classroom were cut. I don’t recall the film that well so I’ll take her word for it.
Ashley was also especially thrilled to see a new scene with…you guessed it…Matilda practicing her powers. Of course she’s taking full credit for this new addition, and it was fun to see her light up with excitement at this new scene.
Ashley aced her spelling test today. She got a 110% on her quiz. Bonus words bumped her over the 100 mark. She was obviously thrilled with the results and wants to do flashcards every week now.
Gotta say… I enjoyed working with her on a goal this week. She got a big confidence boost, and I got to enjoy bonus time with her. A win-win situation.
Ashley burst into tears today because she’s dreading her spelling test this week. The class takes a pre-test every Monday and the real test on Friday. Apparently she bombed the pre-test and dreads the actual test.
Finally, something I can help my kids with. I’m useless when they have math problems, but language arts? Now we’re talking. So we grabbed some notecards and wrote down her 22 words. For the harder words, we came up with silly ways to remember the correct spelling. She kept struggling with the word fifteen because she was mispronouncing it fithteen. So I tied the word to the musical, The Sound of Music, one of her favorites. “Two people sing ‘Sixteen Going on Seventeen,'” I told her. “Just like there are two Fs in the word fifteen.” Don’t ask me why I knew that convuluted method would work on her, but it did. By the end of her study sesson with her notecards, she was spelling the word correctly. Now, I hope she retains everything and aces her test.
I’m pretty sure Ashley duped us into buying her sick act this morning because she seems perfectly fine now. Part of me is annoyed but another part of me feels like…
Ashley has begged to watch Glee for months. We put it off because it’s not streaming for free anywhere, and we were annoyed at having to purchase episodes. But she kept begging so we finally bought season 1 for her to watch.
After watching the pilot…
1) She’s insisting Jane Lynch played Dory in Finding Nemo
2) This show is already dated in some ways.
3) I cannot believe three of these kids from this show are already dead.
Ashley: “In Phantom of the Opera, if Christine was a good person, why didnt she pick the Phantom? I think she didn’t wanna be with him because he was ugly and that’s not nice.
Me: “She rejected him in part because he KILLED people.”
Ashley: “Yeah but he was sorry about all that.”
Ashley: “I like Round Table Pizza because all their pizzas are round.”
Everyone but Ashley:
This little one spent her Valentines baking cookies, making crafts for her loved ones, and delivering them in gift bags. She has such a big heart.
Me: (Calling) “Ashley, dinner!
Ashley: (Walks out of her room) “Mommy, please be quiet. I’m shooting a movie.”